Forgiveness
Summary
The Bible commands forgiveness as a response to God’s mercy, while still telling the truth about wrongdoing and justice.
What the Bible teaches
Believers forgive because they have been forgiven. Forgiveness releases vengeance to God; it does not require pretending harm never happened.
Key passages
Ephesians 4:32
And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
Translation: KJV
Matthew 6:14–15
For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
Translation: KJV
Colossians 3:13
Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.
Translation: KJV
Practical application
Ask God for a willing heart, refuse to rehearse revenge, and seek wise counsel when reconciliation must be paced carefully.
Deeper guides
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